Families generally have the best of intentions when it comes to where you live – they want to be nearer to you so they can visit more regularly or be closer whenever you need help. However, what is best for your family may not be the best thing for you.
Let’s say, for example, that Sam lives in a rest home in a small town, and has been part of the community for many years. While Sam doesn’t have family nearby, Sam has a lot of support from the local community as ‘everyone knows each other’. A move to another town or city could leave Sam feeling isolated.
On the other hand, Sam would love to see the family more so moving closer to them could be great. Although, Sam’s family are very busy, and Sam is worried that they won’t visit as much as they say they will. Plus, Sam doesn’t like living in bigger cities.
It’s a tricky situation. The key here is communication. Rather than doing what you think your family wants, talk the issues through with them. Being open and honest about the situation may free you of any sense of obligation you have and allow the best solution to emerge.
If you do decide that you would like to transfer to another rest home, whether within your Health New Zealand | Te Whatu Ora region or outside it, this must be done consultation with your local service/care co-ordination service. If your needs have changed since your last assessment you will be reassessed to determine the level of care you require. If the transfer is to another Health NZ region your coordinator will contact the corresponding team in the region you intend to move to. An acceptance needs to be received before you move. This process also allows time for funding details to be sorted out.
Updated: 3 Apr 2024