Watch out for these ageist terms

Ageism is a prevalent issue in New Zealand – as it is for older people globally - and it is often perpetuated through the use of certain words, terms, and phrases. These words can be derogatory and disrespectful, even if they are used casually or unintentionally. It's essential to be aware of these ageist words and phrases, and how they can negatively impact older adults.

Here are some ageist words, terms, and phrases to avoid:

"Senior citizen" or "elderly"

While these terms may seem innocuous, they can be condescending and suggest that older adults are less capable or valuable than younger people. At Eldernet, we prefer to use the term ‘older person.’

"Over the hill"

This phrase suggests that once someone reaches a certain age, their best years are behind them. It's a dismissive and disrespectful way to talk about older adults, and it perpetuates the idea that ageing is something to be ashamed of.

"You look good for your age"

This phrase is often used as a backhanded compliment and reinforces the idea that looking young is the only way to look good. It's better to simply say that someone looks great, without bringing age into the conversation.

"Old timer"

These terms are dismissive and condescending, suggesting that older adults are out of touch and irrelevant. It's important to remember that age does not determine someone's worth or ability to contribute to society.

“Young man’ or “young lady”

These types of terms infantilise older people and suggests that they are not fully matured or experienced, and reinforces the stereotype that older people are less capable than their younger counterparts. This can be especially offensive to older people who have worked hard to gain knowledge and expertise over the years, and who deserve to be recognised for their accomplishments regardless of their age.

"Act your age"

This phrase is often used to scold people for not conforming to societal expectations of what it means to be a certain age. It's dismissive of individuality and implies that there's a right or wrong way to age.

It's essential to be aware of these ageist words and phrases and to choose our words carefully, with respect and consideration for the older adults in our lives.

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